Being Honest About Singleness

by | Faith and the Five Senses

Sometimes, I don’t mind singleness–when I’m hiking between cacti on the border of Mexico, taking a selfie at the Meyerson before the violins warm up, or forking a pumpkin ravioli with brown butter sauce in downtown Dallas. On these days, I might even like being single.

But, sometimes, singleness is the ache to feel a shoulder against my salty cheek, to feel an arm weigh on me as I flutter at the edges of sleep… 

Singleness

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…for the scent of Gillette aftershave to interrupt my French Roast reveries, for the clack of oxfords on the stoop at six, for two steaming bowls of corn and jalapeño chowder, for a kiss that bristles after dark, and for another set of tired eyes to scan the small, black figures on the spreadsheet labelled “House Search.”

What does singleness feel like?

It depends on when you’re asking.

5 Comments

  1. Pat

    So perfectly said!

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  2. Jim Mayer

    Love this, Shannon. We could also say, “What does trusting God feel like? It depends on when you are asking.”

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    • smgianotti

      Jim, that’s so true. A lot of our experience is a mixed bag, isn’t it?

      Reply
  3. Patti

    true story Shannon! Loved your thoughts.

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  4. ajmross

    Hi shannon, like your posts…my name is Austin Ross, my blog is http://www.GoGodsChildren.com and what my heart for my blog is to encourage people with there walk with God, and how it happens is through a community based blog where others all post together sharing there posts all on one site to encourage others with there walk with God. give me a shout with if your interested. I would be blessed to share your stuff as it is a blessing to myself. if you whent to my site http://www.GoGodsChildren.com and click “contact us” and we can start an email from their hopefully about sharing your posts on my site to. that be a blessing, thanks and god bless.

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